InterFaith Dialogue

The Keeper of Order

It is my belief and an obvious fact that ‘order’ is the key for the existence of anything at all. In the same way it is a necessity for human existence and the continuance of the world that ‘order’ remains strong. Where order fails chaos is inevitable. But, what could be the governing factors that keep order in place? Some would say that it is the law, enforced by man for the purpose of retribution. But at all places is the law equal and does it always serve justice? As it is evident enough the law is not always sufficient or accurate to maintain order. Hence, acts contrary to maintaining balance will always be committed since man enforced law is faulty. How can man refrain from committing these acts? Since there will be no consequences of his actions man has no reason to uphold order. If man is to discipline himself and protect order it needs to come not from any external force but from a force within him.

That is why man has a conscience, an inner force that tells him what to do. That stands as the ultimate judge of what a person has done. If a man is to be held accountable for his actions, what better way is there than within himself? An inbuilt system that holds him answerable for his actions. It all comes down to this, the verdict of a man’s conscience. This is where the fact known as morality comes up. A moral good or bad is what values a person has inbuilt in his conscience. If he is infused with good morals that is when he will always answer to his conscience and be held accountable in a way that is correspondent with maintaining order. But how can a person instill good morals in him from the very beginning of life. Which force can guide him to do so?

Finally I come to my point with the clear answer for the all the above questions. The answer is ‘religion’. It is the system, no matter how different, that develops a persons a conscience to uplift order. Teaching him what is good and what is wrong. It could be so strong that it affects a person’s conscience with guidelines as the good and the bad to hold him accountable at the end of the day. Hence religion is the ultimate force of accountability. It is beyond humans themselves and in a person’s mind there is no hiding from retribution laid down by religion. Hence, religion governs people indirectly, which as explained above is pivotal to maintain order.

Out of all religions that lay down guidance to what’s good and bad, what I should do and how I will be held accountable for it, I chose Buddhism. Not simply because I was born as one but because at some point in life I went on a journey of discovery which finally lead me to agree with the teachings of Buddhism. If you ask me why, it’s simply because it is correspondent with the way I see the world. What I explained in length above is how I perceive this world. In the search for the perfect system of accountability I find Buddhism to be more suited to my perspectives. Why I think so cannot be explained briefly but ill outline it through a few key words which according to me are the values in Buddhism I admire.

The first one is ‘Karma’. In the eyes of a Buddhist he is accountable for any and all of his activities. The phrase which we say “put yourself in their shoes” is basically how karma functions. At some point your actions will come back to you. Whatever done to others will return in an equal or similar way as if every action has a reaction. May it be good the reactions will be good and if it is bad the reaction will equally be painful. This brings us to classify the good and bad deeds we do as sins and merits. Depending on your merits and sins your fate will be determined. The mere belief of such a system of accountability makes a person think if they would like the same done to them before doing anything to another person thus making him fear the consequences of doing what is deemed wrong to another person. I see this as a brilliant way to hold yourself accountable for your actions thus ensuring a person’s stand point as someone more disciplined. Also to me personally it helps me keep track of my actions and make sure I do what is right and not do what is wrong. Hence, this has become the main building blocks of my morality.

The next thing I value the most is the very key concept of Buddhism which is the key concept of admittance and acknowledgement of change. We as humans desperately hang onto what we hold dear, to a point where letting go is one of our greatest fears. Buddhism teaches us to admit the fact that change is inevitable and that at some point what we hold dear will change. Thus remaining unattached to superficial things makes life more humble and simple. In my life this has guided me to obtain and keep my needs very simple and less complicated. Also as a person I have grown stronger having the ability to not emotionally get over attached to changing elements in life making me more stable as a person.

The next thing would be how Buddhism grants us the ability to unlock the mind. In moments of distress I meditate which helps me sort out my thoughts and calm my mind helping me achieve stability. Meditation is the key to attaining higher levels of spiritual development in my religion and practicing this has allowed me to be more focused in the targets in life I need to accomplish. Buddhism provides guidelines on how to open the gateways to discover your identity through a spiritual approach. Which I find to be one of the most important elements any person should have in life. It helps you become independent, confident and also genuine to yourself. Hence, it helped me find myself.

Among many other things I value in my religion these are a few that would allow me to outline why I follow its teachings. As much as I respect other religions and learn from them, Buddhism is the religion I prefer to agree with my perception and above all, it molded me to the person I am today.

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Dhisal Kapuge is a 20 year old Theravada Buddhist who resides in Kandy, Sri Lanka. He is a Law student and a dedicated volunteer. His passion is to explore the world and learn from the experiences by his journeys.
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You will not be able to rise high in your faith by trampling another person’s faith!

I was asked what my religion meant to me, which got me thinking – what really does Islam mean to me? ‘mean’, just another daily used 4 letter word yet it holds so much gravity. A four letter word, which would express and represent to you something that I believe in very deeply.

Islam.

Google says Islam means Peace, obedience and submission. It also says in the religious sense Islam means submission to the will of God and obedience to His law. For the seven billion people who breathe on earth, Islam as a religion may mean many good or evil things. To me Islam means many things I keep close to my heart,

Islam is beauty. Sometimes people say you wouldn’t know the real meaning of something unless you are personally experiencing it. I may not be able to justify to you with my words how beautiful my religion means and is to me, but Islam as a religion for me is not just a religion I was born to, but one that I have now with all consciousness chosen for myself, One that I have chosen for me to be my pathway in life.

Islam for me is forgiveness. As a Muslim I have made and am making a lot of mistakes in life and I know as I grow the amount of mistakes I make may not reduce, yet this does not mean I am being any less of a Muslim. Every time I intentionally or unintentionally make a mistake and cannot muster the courage to face society, I drop down on my knees with tears filling my eyes and bow down and pray. I pray to allah asking for forgiveness because I know he listens, Allah says in the Quran in chapter Al- Zumar( The Troops) , verse number 53 : “Say: O my Servants who have transgressed against their souls! Despair not of the Mercy of Allah: for Allah forgives all sins: for He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” Regardless of the gravity of the sin, with a sincere heart if you ask for forgiveness I know Allah will listen.

Islam is security. “And he is with you wherever you are.” Surah Al- Hadid: Verse 4. To have the reassurance that the guidance and the blessing of your God is with you at all times is one that puts the heart at ease. In the Quran it is said that “Allah will test you with hardship after hardship” (At-Talaq 65:7), yet it is also said, “Allah does not burden a soul more than he can bear”. (Surah Al- Baqarah 2:286). Today I know that as long as the glow of my faith in Allah brightens my life, I shall have the strength to face any hardship that comes my way.

Islam for me is also equality. From childhood I was always taught to never look down on anyone. Regardless of what societal ranking a man or woman posses my parents always taught me to never look down on them, this teaching is nothing but a reflection of the teachings of Islam. Regardless of where we stand in this world in monetary and educational ranking, at the end of the day there is a God above us and in Allah’s eyes we are all in one level. Being privileged than someone doesn’t make you any better but what makes you better is if you treat them fairly and equally.

Islam for me is love and unity. Love your parents, your family, and your friends. Love your spouse, your children, your neighbours, the animals and any fellow human being who follows another religion. Islam is also respect, hatred never made anything better and being a Muslim I have learnt that respecting other religions is an act that reflects the beauty and teachings of your religion. Putting down another person never makes you any better. Being exposed to the practices of other religions and my religion has made me realize that all religions at the end of the day teach the same thing, “You will not be able to rise high in your faith by trampling another person’s faith.” So respect people and their ways of life; spread love and practice the action of being united.

Lastly Islam is guidance, the way of my life. You cannot judge my religion based on me, I am yet another mere soul dwindling on earth figuring out how to be the true example of the faith she follows. Islam is much more than what you see on Media, Islam is much more than what meets the eye.

Islam is a hidden gem waiting to be discovered; one that you will know about when you set yourself on the journey to learn about it, yet one that you will be unaware of if you don’t have the heart to believe in it.

The Prophet (pbuh) didn’t choose to be a Prophet. The job was chosen for him. Sometimes we don’t get to pick what we have to do, but rather, it is chosen for us. In the end, though, it’s what’s best for us, and we have to make the most of it. I didn’t choose Islam to be my religion it was chosen for me. Today as a 21 year old who learns something new every day in life, if I was given the chance to choose my religion I will always chose Islam; I will chose to be known as a Muslim. Not because I believe it to be the best or because it is what I have to follow, but because it means something much more to me than what I can put in to words and express to you.

My religion to me means much more than just a religion I have to practice. Islam is the torch bearer to brighten up a dark room and today I may not be the best example for my religion yet with time and the guidance, I know that one day the spark I have within me, which will brighten up much more than just a tiny dark room.

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Hafsa Mazahim is a 21 year old Sri Lankan Moor girl who has an educational background in psychology. She also serves as the Project Coordinator for Oceans and Continents.
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No one can tell you that you are wrong!

What does religion mean? According to Google, it’s “the belief in and worship of a superhuman controlling power, especially a personal God or gods”. But is that all religion is? Just a belief in a superhuman? – It obviously means way more than that.
It means next to nothing to some and to the others, it’s the way to live. There is a huge difference of what each religion means to every individual and the best part of it is that no one can tell you that you are wrong!

My relationship with my religion is a long complicated journey with twists and turns. My parents aren’t the most religious type so growing up I could choose to go to the Kovil or stay at home, or decide to not follow certain rituals.

So for me, until my rebellious teenage years arrived, religion was something that I was taught in school, which I studied just to get good grades. All I knew was that there were many stories, rituals, traditions and my religion had a long boring history. At home, I just did whatever I could to stay on my mother’s good side which included not eating meat on Fridays and going to Kovil on special occasions.

Then came my rebellious teenage years and I questioned anything and everything. Suddenly the stories seems like fantasies, the rituals and traditions seemed to be either sexist or ridiculous and nothing really made sense. I started reading up on other religions and even considered myself an atheist for a while. I never voiced these thoughts though, because no matter how “right” I thought I was at the moment, it wasn’t worth explaining to everyone the ‘why’ and the ‘when’.

At sixteen, I started growing out my rebellious age (which my mom was so thankful for) and started thinking that there must be a reason why Hinduism is one of the oldest religion which can’t even be dated back and started reading everything I learned with a clear mindset.

Then I realized that Hinduism is more than the ‘scary gods with 1000 faces’ or the ‘colorful festivals’. There are reason behind the rituals and the stories.

Hinduism is about compassion and peace, to believe that every organism has soul whether its plant or animal, therefore we have to show compassion to everything.

It’s about karma, about how every action has its effect and we are responsible for our action. Sometimes the present life is not enough to account for our sins or our good deeds which is why we have rebirths and it’s a cycle until you lose all desires in your mind which is the goal of our existence.

It’s about righteous living.

It’s about achieving peace of mind and soul.

I would say Hinduism is not a particular belief system but rather a way of life that you choose. There is no “one Hinduism” as it lacks any unified system of beliefs or books.
You could be a Hindu and not agree with anything that I have said above and that is alright too. But I think we can agree that Hinduism is a ‘religion’ of love, kindness, mercy, selflessness and helping the needy even at cost to oneself.

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Karthika Jeganathan is a 19 year old student who believes in Hinduism and a proud Sri Lankan.

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What my Religion means to Me…

To me, being a Roman Catholic is about loving God and obeying His commandments; one which I hold dear to me is helping other people. I see the Church reaching out to the sick, the hungry, the homeless, and the helpless. We do this through Catholic Charities and in our participation in local programs.

Being a Roman Catholic, and attending a school which taught only another denomination in Christianity, has helped me understand that we need religion to have spirituality and faith in our lives, also to respect other religions and its core values. Although I may not feel the same sort holiness or a sense of tranquility, when I enter a mosque or a Buddhist temple as I do in a Catholic or Christian church. I’ve learnt to understand that the inspiration lies in all other religions is its people.

Praying to Holy Father above, during my desperate times and when in need, has pulled me through many situations in life. It has given me enough courage and blessing to keep moving forward. Although I may not go to church every Sunday or read the bible daily I do not consider myself a less of a catholic as being a believer in god and praying when needed has given me enough faith and guidance to have a spiritual life.

Being around people from different religions has taught me that no matter what people say being a part of my religion has helped me have a very cultured life. This has given me the wisdom to understand and respect the teachings of other religions also to have a deep connection to my faith. Also not use my religion for power or pride but use it, when in doubt and to seek guidance.
I conclude with the wisdom of St. James, “Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, to visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep him unspotted from the world. (James 1:27)”

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Menura Mudalige (20) is a CIMA student who resides in Kandy. Currently Menura aspires to become a Trainer and a public speaker.